Their terrifying power dissipates as you meet others, have sex, and learn the scene. When we come out, words like “gay” and “bi” are tough to say, but they get easier. Which makes a difference the further back in the club you go, the darker the room is, the hornier you get.
Tops and bottoms and versatile guys alike all wear these - they’re easy to throw on, and usually less expensive than full-body getups - but it’s no secret that they’re easier to bend over in. These have minimal vertical straps over the pivot point of your waist - their principal construction is around the chest and shoulders. They’re made for guys who will be standing up, standing behind, thrusting.īulldog harnesses, shoulder harnesses, “x” harnesses, and their million variations are universal.
Harnesses with straps connected to a cock ring droop uncomfortably and awkwardly when you bend over. It’s a simple fact of anatomy that certain harnesses are uncomfortable to bend over in - like the styles mentioned above. These also include harnesses that come down holster-style and connect to a cock ring. These include classic suspender harnesses and their million variations. In other words: a harness that requires you to keep your pants on, at least a little bit (it’s OK if they sag and show that happy trail, that tuft of pubic hair, as they should).
