It means teasing him with your hard-on, letting him feel the heat of your hardness between his legs and on but not in his anus. Working it doesn’t mean slamming it into him. Getting him to that level of desire is actually pretty easy if you know how to work it. If he wants you in the worse way, his legs will begin to part and his sphincter will start to quiver with the right kind of anticipation-pleasure, not pain. Let’s start by helping him concentrate on desire, rather than fear of your hard dick.įirst, you have to heat up his desire so much that his body aches for your hard dick to be inside of him. I’m also going to show you how to suck his dick while you fuck him. I’m going to show you little-known techniques that will allow your partner to experience the ecstasy of bottoming without any of the pain he’s come to fear or associate with it. Say goodbye to failed attempts at intercourse because your partner couldn’t take the pain.
This series combines porn industry secrets with innovative techniques from the latest gay male sex research. This column is part one of a new weekly sex-ed series from Woody Miller, sex advice columnist, and author of the best-selling book, How to Bottom Like a Porn Star and How To Top Like A Stud: A Penetrating Guide to Gay Sex.
